IF I had a husband, and IF we were going to Cancun (not bitter; not jealous), then this is what I would urge him to wear.

First of all, I just found a blog today, that I will reprint here:

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So some of you have been asking what the dress code is, and what exactly is “Beach Formal”. Well here’s a quote that we stole from theknot.com:

“Beach Formal – This suggests an elegant beach wedding — so dress to impress, but also dress for the elements (sun, sand, and water). Anything you would wear to a nice restaurant on a summer day is appropriate.

Him: Summer suit and sandals.

Her: A more formal summer sundress with flat sandals." [<-- Times! Don't use the dresses shown here as a guide. The formal dresses here are yucky. Untimes.]

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Back to me, Tawny, and the original blog. Men have it easy. Any clothes from Tommy Bahama will work for the entire trip (check eBay!). Men: think linen and khaki. Men, you'll be thrilled to know that you can leave the ties at home... I *think*. This is a Kouretas wedding so you may want to to error on the side of being too dressed up. Therefore, I am not sure about linen and khaki for the wedding. I would go monochromatic. Men-- you should go black.

Ideally, you would look like Bradley Cooper in the movie "The Hangover." Nice black shirt, black slacks-- and you would definitely have to wear closed toes shoes. If the wedding party (the men's side) is less formal and wearing sandals then feel free to dress down. But I would even throw a black blazer that has a subtle texture over it all and viola. You'll be very appropriate and and you'll look nice next to your lady.

Enjoy the wedding... and your husbands!